欲望都市 第二季

His hello was her ends of endings.

Her laugh was their first step down the aisle.

His hand will be hers to hold forever.

His forever was as simple as her smile.

He said she was what was missing.

She said instantly she knew.

She was the question to be answered.

And his answer was “I do”.

the city becomes a deserted battlefield located with emotional land mines.you have to be very careful where you step or you could be blown to pieces

第二集

as i watched him go,i realized the one thing i couldn't say to Mr.big was I'm still not over you

第三集

whatever happened to aging gracefully ？

there is no world outside manhattan

somewhere out there is another little freak who will love us,understand us and kiss our three heads and make it all better .and in the meanswhile ,we always have Manhattan

第四集

every couple of years,an article like this surface as a cautionary tale to scare young women into marriage

when did being alone become the moder day equivalent of of being a leper？

then i had a frightening thought ,maybe i was the one who was faking it.all these years faking to myself that i was happy being single .

no matter how much it hurts sometimes it's better to be alone than fake it.

i decided instead of running away from the idea of a life alone .I'd better sit down and take that fear to lunch .so i sat there and had a glass of wine,no books,no man,no friends,no armor ...alone

第七集

this is NewYork .nothing is shocking

in a city as cynical as NewYork

i was afraid if looked up into his eyes,I'd turn to stone

有时候看到会把女主跟mr.big的相处等同起来，为什么她们的生活很和谐，中国的女生貌似都太被动了，并且会把主动视为男士必须的事情，这很多时候其实就是一种束缚的枷锁。

在她们的恋情中，看到了我和对方的模型，我很爱他，爱到丧失了自我，爱到小心翼翼的，生怕他不爱我，拼命想从他身上获得证明。但是男士丰富的感情经历让他有所保留，也更为的理智，但是感情很多时候都是喜欢成长的。区别不同在于mr.big更为成熟

但是生活中不应该只有爱情，生活很美好，也要坚信不移会越来越好。不用着急，也不用焦虑，不用沉迷于过去的记忆，日子会越来越好，因为深爱过，所以再见依旧会起涟漪。

感情很多时候不是一步到位的，很多人分分合合。

男人跟女人的思维很不同，很多时候女人会经常因为一些小细节而纠结，但是很多时候这些细节对男生来说都是无关紧要的，往往可能就是他们无意中的一个举动，不必过多揣测。男人很怕迅速建立一段稳定的关系，因为他们怕压迫，怕承担更怕被束缚的感觉。有时候对男人最大的带领其实就是不闹，好好的，顺其自然，直接表达情绪，有效的沟通才能长久。很多时候，他们需要时间，需要耐心等他们成长。

其实女人也遵循开心法则，不管发生什么事，不要让他影响自己，继续开心生活。

在回家的动车上第三次看sex and the City。看到本季结尾，依然感动满满。看过的美剧不算多，大多数的神剧也都追过。但是如果问我，最爱的是什么。一部是shamelss，还有一部就是这部了。

shamelss让你觉得生活已经很fuck的时候告诉你永远都能更fuck。SandC在你爱情迷茫时永远会给你答案。

本季最后的“your girl is lovely”道尽多少无奈。有多少你以为会跟你共度余生的人，你以为哪怕不结婚也会携手共度的人，最后的最后，还是结了婚，还是娶了别人。

最后的最后，我只能看你坐上远去的汽车，我也只能继续寻找新的兴趣相投的人。但是谁又知道我也曾幻想过和你的以后。

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